達賴喇嘛、歐普拉推薦《紐約時報》暢銷榜Top1最有意義的人生經驗,往往很痛苦;你以為的絕境,其實藏著豐收的祕密。發掘生命價值的啟蒙書,助你在惶惶不安的職涯中,跨越難關。當改變發生,你有沒有勇氣展開另一種人生﹖過去,我們總以為只要認真努力,擁抱簡單的成功公式:心無旁騖,犧牲個人生活,一心一意往上爬,辛苦總會有代價。如今,我們領悟到人生不是一路往上衝,高峰過後可能就是谷底;不管是誰,現在多閃耀、多風光,有一天都會走下坡。當人生從走得光彩奪目變成走鋼索,該如何活出新意義?許多拚命三郎,發現愈來愈力不從心,家庭關係也開始變得緊張。面對人生的四分五裂,他們以一貫方式回應,否認愈來愈明顯的變化,加倍努力,試圖彌補衰退與不足,最後結局卻往往陷入更大的憤怒、害怕與失望。原本以為到了人生某個階段,生活就會更令人自豪,充滿喜悅與滿足感。然而,事與願違。你的人生不必這樣過。破解奮鬥者的詛咒,把害怕做出的人生改變,轉變成全新的力量泉源。哈佛大學教授布魯克斯幫助你打破「奮鬥者的詛咒」,從科學、哲學、神學、歷史的角度出發,分享違反直覺的策略,教你戒除舊習慣,培養新的生活方式,發掘潛在的生命價值。‧重新思考成功︰不自我物化,戒掉對成功的癮。‧活好︰思考失敗/死亡,擊敗恐懼,好好活著。‧認識自己︰從追求外在成就,到發展內在力量。‧化脆弱為力量:分享脆弱,生活中的愛會成長。人生不會因為無條件的相信和努力就變得幸福,有時候你必須捨棄,才會發現生活中真正重要的事情。當改變發生,你不一定要為此感到痛苦。這本書教你以優雅的姿態,帶著喜悅與更深層的使命感,接受挫折帶來的禮物。各界推薦丁菱娟 影響力品牌學院創辦人林以正 自由教練/前台大心理系副教授黃惠如 《慢老》作者楊文正 三平咖啡老闆/繪本畫家嫺人 「嫺人的好日子」部落格版主謝文憲 企業講師/作家/主持人「這本書幫助你隨著年齡增長和人生變化,活得更快樂自在。」─達賴喇嘛「亞瑟.布魯克斯是一個你必須認識的人。」─歐普拉「有的人追求好成績、對成功上癮,終日疲於奔命。雖然明知不可能永遠強撐下去,依舊努力嘗試。如果你也是這樣,這本書是為你寫的。作者證明有可能愈活愈美好。」──賽門.西奈克(Simon Sinek),暢銷書《無限賽局》作者「啟迪人心的智慧指南,教我們重新設想剩餘的人生。如果你一直很努力,你累了,這本好書適合你。」──丹尼爾.品克(Daniel H. P
A woman invites a famed artist to visit the remote coastal region where she lives, in the belief that his vision will penetrate the mystery of her life and landscape. Over the course of one hot summer, his provocative presence provides the frame for a study of female fate and male privilege, of the geometries of human relationships, and of the struggle to live morally between our internal and external worlds. With its examination of the possibility that art can both save and destroy us, Second Place is deeply affirming of the human soul, while grappling with its darkest demons.
Hilarious, emotional and thought-provoking, The Second Chance is the perfect book club read for fans of Sophie Kinsella, David Nicholls and Beth O'Leary, asking what it is that makes for a life well lived. Nell has always known her expiry date.After a psychic predicted her death date twenty years ago, she has lived life accepting she would never see forty - embracing adventure and travelling the world, choosing fun over commitment and laying down roots.So, when the fateful day comes, Nell feels ready. She posts five excruciatingly honest confessions to her sister, parents and past loves, knowing she won't be around to face the consequences. Then, with her heart laid bare, all that's left to do is check into a glamorous hotel and wait for the inevitable...But when Nell unexpectedly wakes up the next morning broke, single and very much alive, she must figure out exactly how to seize this second chance at life. And then it also hits her: What on earth happens now that everyone knows exact
#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER *; Everybody tells you to live for a cause larger than yourself, but how exactly do you do it? The author ofThe Road to Characterexplores what it takes to lead a meaningfu