The Fun We Had (Nominated for Carnegie Medals 2025)

A moving, poignant story of love and loss which reminds us of the comfort of memories.

"Coulthard dedicates the book to her own mother, who died last year - and her skill is to convey that sense of loss entirely through the eyes of her child narrator. The story will resonate with any young reader who has lost a grandparent; but it will appeal to many an adult too."
The Telegraph

The Fun We Had
This poignant story of love and loss takes readers on a heartfelt journey through the changing seasons as a little girl visits her poorly Nana. Each time she visits, they remember all the special adventures they have shared together. When Nana dies, she leaves the little girl a box of keepsakes that she has secretly collected from their moments together. Through these shared memories, this moving story gently touches on the concept of bereavement in a way that is both comforting and easy for young children to understand.
 
Based on the author’s personal experience, The Fun We Had was inspired by the bond shared between her young son and his Nana who passed away from cancer just before it was published. She wanted to write something about loss that would ultimately celebrate how powerful and precious our memories of loved ones are — especially when we no longer have them close.
 
*This book serves as a gentle introduction to the concept of loss, helping children process their emotions and find comfort in the memories of their loved ones.
*Charissa Coulthard's lyrical rhyming text captures the essence of love, loss, and the comfort found in cherished memories.
*Sam Usher’s exquisite illustrations are full of beautiful and touching details.
*With a focus on treasuring joyful moments, even in times of illness.
*The recurring message that their love is enough – even if they can’t make their loved one better – provides comfort and reassurance to young readers dealing with the sickness or loss of a loved one.
*Perfect for families experiencing bereavement, seeking a gentle way to introduce the topic to young children.