有愛之處必有痛。Ubi amor, ibi dolor.只要你能相信我,親愛的讀者,我會盡我所能帶著你跨越這條河。所有橋都是邀請。我只能希望你接受我的邀請。透過這個故事的每一個角色,你會看見星辰影響我們,而非束縛我們。如果巴黎是光之城,那布拉格肯定就是影之城。在像這樣的夜晚,萬物半隱半現,什麼事都有可能。魔法、無聊、做愛、音樂、詩,或根本什麼也沒有。在布拉格舊城邊緣,象離開了動物園,穿過霧中的圍牆,最後來到查理橋畔。而這座超越六百年的橋對你娓娓道來橋畔眾生的寂寞、脆弱與力量。懷抱著作家夢的男人獲得文學獎肯定,卻旋即陷入創作瓶頸,只好日復一日在動物園擔任夜間警衛的工作。他身為心理諮商師妻子熱切的想成為人母,然而男人卻無法相信自己能勝任父親的角色。有著酗酒問題的女孩因為父親突然在異鄉病倒而輾轉來到布拉格,卻在趕往醫院探望的途中搭乘的計程車,意外撞上常在查理橋表演的街頭藝人,隨後又遭逢父親過世的打擊。首席芭蕾舞女伶深受膝痛所苦,同時為自己年華老去而憂慮,對未來徬徨不安,唯一能傾訴心事的對象卻只有已於一九三一年過世的安娜‧巴甫洛娃的鬼魂。合唱團女高音懷了指揮的孩子。指揮告訴她,他愛她,但也愛他的妻子,但人怎麼可能同時給兩個人同等的愛。查理橋上,合唱團正在為這座百年老橋的生日而獻唱,路過的芭蕾女伶忍不住隨音樂起舞,象也駐足聆聽。等等,大象?這頭象將繼續前進,直到來到第二母親之河。象體內的象仔將認識大河。象仔不會有諸象的巨大悲傷。象仔將不知圍欄為何物。這頭象與你同在。
●本書是關於「集體沉默」的第一本完整研究著作。●多為社會學界重量級大師聯名推薦。●各大專院校社會系所指定參考書社會學經典重現,當代大師一致推薦!覺得孤獨?也許因為我們對真相沉默……權威《美國社會學期刊》推薦:精采、發人深省的好書!每一個家庭,都有心照不宣的秘密。每一個組織,都有集體避談的話題。每一個國家,都有拒絕面對現實的政府。明明大象就在眼前,大家假裝沒看見,絕口不提,甚至否認有大象。我們以為,閉上眼睛,日子好過一點。我們以為,沉默保護自己,也保護別人。於是當面對難堪與痛苦現實,我們寧可相信無知是福,珍惜著「鴕鳥權利」,集體沉默。但集體沉默,讓我們付出高昂代價──家庭中隱藏的秘密,留下難以抹去傷痕;組織裡盤踞的惡習,最後往往臭不可聞;國家揮之不去的弊端,全民皆是受害者。備受社會學界推崇的傑魯巴維,在這本歷久不衰的經典中透過淺白精簡的文字,為讀者解構「沉默的串謀」。從日常生活到重大歷史,全書穿梭於不同階層,旁徵新聞事件、戲劇、小說、童話以及電影,引導我們思考與面對心中那頭被我們「非禮勿視、非禮勿聽、非禮勿言」的「房間裡的大象」(the elephant in the room)。傑魯巴維提醒我們:「大象」之所以龐大,往往正是由於我們的沉默。沉默,打開了傷害的大門,成了加害者、違法犯紀者的一大武器。一切殘酷和墮落,都「在黑暗中滋長」。要驅除它們,我們必須投以最明亮的光芒。 書中為我們帶來的好消息是:當我們假裝沒看見、絕口不提、拒絕承認一件事情的時間越久,我們心中揭露這件事的欲望就會更強烈。一旦我們集體打破沉默,願意正視、聆聽與討論,大象就會如變魔術般,開始縮小。最後,我們才能將這頭傳說中的大象,趕出房間……「世上許多不幸,源自……沒有說出口的事。」──杜斯妥也夫斯基毫不猶豫地強烈且熱情的推薦這本書。――American Journal of Sociology
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